Stay
Feline self-control. Useful for opening doors, serving food and vet visits.

Stay is one of the hardest cues for cats precisely because of their independent nature. But once learned, it transforms critical moments: opening doors with the cat behind, receiving guests or any moment that demands patience.
Cosa ottieni
- Open the door without escapes
- Serve food without meows or jumps
- Stillness for grooming and handling
A cat that knows how to wait is a safe and well-mannered cat.
Prima di iniziare
- · Knows sit
- · Reliable name response
Materiali
- · Premium treats
- · Quiet, distraction-free spot
Passo dopo passo
- 1
1 second of stillness in sit
Ask sit. Before treating, wait 1 second. Mark "yes" and treat. Repeat 10 times.
- 2
Build to 5, 10, 30 seconds
Build by 2-second increments per session. If he moves before, drop back. Consistency is key.
- 3
Add the cue
Once he holds 10 clean seconds, say "stay" while showing an open palm. Wait. Treat.
- 4
Distance: step away
Say "stay", step back, return and treat. Build to 2, 3, 5 steps. YOU always return to the cat, not the other way.
- 5
Add distractions
Practice with TV on, another cat passing, food on the counter. Only level up at 9/10 success in the previous.
Errori frequenti
- Adding time and distance at once (raise ONE only)
- Treating after he moves
- Sessions over 5 minutes
Se qualcosa non funziona
Always gets up at 3 seconds
→ Drop to 2 seconds for 3 sessions. Build slowly.
Consigli da pro
- Ask stay before opening the food bowl: natural daily reinforcement.
- A cat's typical limit is 30-60 seconds max; not a dog, don't expect 5 minutes.
Approfondimento
Teaching a cat to stay on cue is one of the toughest challenges in positive cat training. Unlike dogs, cats don't respond from submission or duty: the only way is making the wait pay off every time. Built progressively in time and distance, stay becomes a key tool for opening doors, hosting guests and safe handling.